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Remove these 9 Things to Improve your Life and Reduce Stress
The 4 subtle dangers of adding more to your life
5 min readMar 8, 2023
Why do you add things to your life when you want to make it be better?
Most people do this. But there is a better way.
A study found that when trying to fix something, people added rather than removed things.
When asked to :
- fix a travel itinerary, only 28% removed something
- improve an essay, word counts shrank in only 17% of edits
- make a pattern out of squares just 20% removed squares to create a pattern
- improve a university, only 11% wanted to drop something
You do the same:
- improve a relationship? You add a date night to the calendar
- feeling lonely? Take up a new hobby
- want to improve your career? Get an extra qualification
- concerned by your health? Join a gym
By adding more you create problems for yourself.