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Remove these 9 Things to Improve your Life and Reduce Stress

The 4 subtle dangers of adding more to your life

Derek Hughes
5 min readMar 8, 2023
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Why do you add things to your life when you want to make it be better?

Most people do this. But there is a better way.

A study found that when trying to fix something, people added rather than removed things.

When asked to :

  • fix a travel itinerary, only 28% removed something
  • improve an essay, word counts shrank in only 17% of edits
  • make a pattern out of squares just 20% removed squares to create a pattern
  • improve a university, only 11% wanted to drop something

You do the same:

  • improve a relationship? You add a date night to the calendar
  • feeling lonely? Take up a new hobby
  • want to improve your career? Get an extra qualification
  • concerned by your health? Join a gym

By adding more you create problems for yourself.

The 4 dangers of adding more to your life

1. You have no space for the new!

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Derek Hughes
Derek Hughes

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